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Why I Didn’t Report My Sexual Abuse
This is a story of sexual abuse. While it’s not graphic in any way, it still may be uncomfortable to read. It does have a very happy ending! We’ve just come off the week of the Kavanaugh hearings, during which time I was with my stepdad in the hospital. Needless to...
My Breast Friends
How many times have you criticized your own breasts? How many times have you hated them or wished they were different? Or are they your breast friends? One in eight women will develop invasive breast cancer during her lifetime. It is the fifth most common cause of...
Tantra, Boundary Violations, Sexual Misconduct, and #METOO
The recent eruption of sexual misconduct and boundary violations has finally reached the world of tantra and spirituality. As a teacher of Sacred Sexual Awakening and Healing®, I’ve long been aware of tantra and “spiritual” sexuality practitioners who bring their own...
The Anatomy of Desire
Desire… passion… lust… ardor… love. These are compelling emotions. When they rise in me, like a wave upon the sea, I must hang onto something if I am to maintain any form of balance. This wave sweeps me into a cauldron of turbulence long before I land into anything...
The Sacred Dance of Masculine and Feminine
The Masculine and Feminine Dance Yule, or Winter Solstice, is a high holy day that predates Christmas by thousands of years. It’s one I’ve recognized and celebrated in addition to (and more often instead of) Christmas since 2000. As I revisit the lore and mythology of...
The Integration of the Solar Feminine
Creative. Passionate. Receptive. Focused. Pulsating with power. Glowing with good health. Radiant with self-confidence. The Solar Feminine. Venus transited the Sun early in June 2012, signifying the rise of a new feminine archetype: the Solar Feminine. The Lunar...
Sexual Healing – The Leading Edge of Personal Growth
Have you done a ton of healing and personal growth work and yet still feel disconnected from your sexuality? I had this exact experience after going through several years of therapy and a variety of personal growth workshops in the late 1990’s. I had to face the fact...
Sexual Energy is Powerful Medicine
Isn’t sexual energy just for sex? Sexual energy has the power to create new life as well as heal all manner of imbalances, blocks, dis-eases, and illnesses. Perhaps this is a new idea for you, using sexual energy for anything other than sex. It is for most people. Our...
The Birth of The Sacred Feminine Mystery School
A new generation of feminine empowerment is rapidly on the rise. As women step up and speak their truth about sexual harassment and abuse, they claim their sexual sovereignty. But what about the impact of all that sexual wounding? It doesn’t just vanish. On the...
The Sacred Inner Masculine
The sacred feminine is balanced by her counterpart, the sacred masculine. Rather than being outside of yourself, the sacred masculine is part of you. People of every gender carry both feminine and masculine energies inside of them; some people lean more into their...
The Ceremonial Rededication of the Priestess
Upon this Autumnal Equinox day 2015, on the slopes of Haleakala Maui, I rededicate myself as a Priestess under Morning Star Venus in Leo. I embrace the Leo themes of radiant, radical self-love, vision-carrier, and innovative creator. I declare my willingness to shine...
When the Shadow Feminine Comes Out to Play
I want to explore this, because while it’s easy to cast blame and be the righteous victim, there’s likely some potent information underneath the initial reaction. Women have been competing with each other for various things, including men, for a very long time. What’s...
