I want to explore this idea of the shadow feminine, because while it’s easy to cast blame and be the righteous victim, there’s likely some potent information underneath the initial reaction. Women have been competing with each other for various things, including men, for a very long time. What’s been building up is a collective experience filled with the razor sharp memories and tattered remnants of the unresolved deception, betrayal, and mistrust.
Sister, it’s time to heal our collective experience. It begins within each of us. Pointing fingers at each other is not the answer anymore… we’ve all done it, and it’s all forgiven. But have you forgiven yourself?
The invitation here is to ask inside yourself when you feel you’ve been harmed by another woman.
♥ When have I harmed other women in exactly the same way?
♥ How does the experience reflect what’s unhealed inside of me?
You might be quite surprised by what arises. You can work this one backwards in your history for some rich veins of shadow material as well.
I had an opportunity to do some of this work myself, recently. I was really grateful to be able to excavate some very old, unforgiven, and mostly forgotten ways in which I had been the perpetrator of exactly what I thought I was the victim of. It led me to a powerful ceremony of Ho’oponopono. I got to make it right. Including forgiving myself. Now, I get to hold that sister that supposedly harmed me in compassion, acceptance, and accountability. (Yes, accountability.)
When the shadow feminine comes out to play, we all benefit. When we cast light on our shadow, acknowledge it, accept it, forgive it, and embrace it, it can no longer run us from its subterranean hiding place. And we have an opportunity to create something new in the sisterhood. Cooperation, collaboration, acceptance, trust, love, friendship, support, and the sharing of resources. It’s time to weave a new story of the feminine.
Please share your experiences of working with the shadow feminine within yourself. How are you weaving the new story? If you have not had the opportunity, come sit in circle with us and we’ll support you!
Blessed be, Amrita
This article was originally published on Amrita Grace’s website at: https://amritagrace.com/mystery-school/when-the-shadow-feminine-comes-out-to-play/